Monday, February 21, 2011

Ahh . . . . Malaysia!!!

My return today from Malaysia was a bit anti-climatic. No one greeted me at the airport; although I had tears in my eyes upon seeing a soldier being greeted by his family.
I left my husband in Malaysia, to finish the work he went there to do, so there was only 2 large German Shepard dogs and 2 grudge-holding cats waiting for me at home. The dogs were very happy to see me, although I found them to be just a bit subdued. Waiting for my husband, I suppose.
I keep waiting for the jet-lag to attack, but so far so good. I expect tomorrow it will hit hard!

My one main thrill/reason/goal for going to Malaysia was the pursuit of fabric - in particular, silk from the huge silk store where my husband previously purchased some yardage for me.
I was made to wait, though, until our friend from Malaysia was back from her trip to the states! Wires were crossed, signals were miscommunicated. She thought I was staying a week longer, I thought she would be there when I arrived. We didn't know the name of the store, not did we have a clue where it was located.
So while we waited for her arrival, we filled our time together -


We ended up at Central Market; a jumble of flavors and scents from all over Asia and India. From Korea to India and beyond. I tried to take a photo of this 'dragon', but it was moving much to fast, and then suddenly turned and ran me into a stall before handing me a tangerine for luck!

It was the last few days of the Chinese New Year, and festivities were in full swing everywhere we went!


We were told of a place called Batu Caves. A large cave of Hindu Temples; entered by climbing 278 steep stone stairs to the large mouth opening of the cave.
All along the steep stairway were monkeys, who were not shy about begging for food. One large male was not about to let us enter into the cave, until he was distracted by someone with a bag full of bananas!
Looking down from the top of the stairway was much more difficult than going up! Though the rituals and gods of the hindu religion are beyond my understanding, there was a strange kind of calm that eminated from the music and chanting we witnessed there.
Our taxi driver became our tour guide, and proceeded to show us many of the traditional 'sites' in Kuala Lumpur. We saw the palace, where there is the british custom of the 'Changing of the Guards', on a regular basis.

There are 3 different guards, dressed in 3 different countries uniforms, representing Indian, Chinese, and Malaysia.
We saw a beautiful war memorial, centuries old buildings, huge mosques, and a bird sanctuary in the middle of the city.

On our third day, we took a commuter flight from Kuala Lumpur, north to the island of Penang. We were told that the island held much history of Malaysia, and since we area always interested in the history of the places we are fortunate enough to visit, we thought it would be a worthwhile day. I'm not sure what I expected, but I was a bit disappointed.
The island was much bigger than I had anticipated. The area we were directed to was the area of china town and Penang's Little India. Extremely congested with wall to wall stalls, most of them not even really buildings. Filthy dirty, very old, so many smells, so many languages, so many people. We ended up getting a 2 hour tour on a rickshaw.
Though the little old chinese man knew very little english, he was able to show us sights we never would have found on our own. We saw several museums, several mosques and temples;

where these very large cones of inscense burned for hours, and men and women knelt to pray,
lit candles, or bought birds and let them go (not sure about the significance here).
We saw little china town on the water -

where all the tiny homes are built on docks over the water. Each tiny home has it's own tiny temple to worship at. The true highlight of the day was the Chocolate Shoppe we stopped at before the end of the tour. Every kind of chocolate you can think of. I purchased some orange dark chocolate for myself,and my husband got some chili-chocolate.


By this time we were exhausted. We spent the day napping! Went to a Thai Restaurantfor dinner, where I learned not to order any kind of fish or sea food. It will come intact. Completely. Shrimp? All legs nad head. Brave enough for Squid or octupus? Yeah. Complete - head and all. How about just plain ole' fish? Right again!  Complete fish - head to tail! From here on out I stick with chicken or beef.


Today we ended up at the zoo. A very nice one, at that. It has been years since we went to a zoo, and we had a very relaxed enjoyable day. A few of my favorits:

Feeding the baby elephant some sugar cane!

The most beautiful creatures on Gods' green planet!

Someone who knows what to do with a hot humid day!

That evening we went to a friends'aunts chinese restuarant where we enjoyed a wonderful meal; then went to see late night ChinaTown. Rows and rows of hawkers trying to sell you faux 'designer' bags, watches, jeans, perfumes, ect.... Kind of made my blood boil a bit if you want to know the truth . . . .

But I did get a taste of a new fruit -

It's called Dragon fruit; probably because the outside looks like dragon scales, in scarlett red.
 But cut it open -

and it looks - and even tastes a bit - like  kiwi with berry mixed in. Delicious!

It had finally arrived - my last day. It had been a wonderful week spent with my wonderful husband, just the 2 of us. But this was to be MY day! The day and the experience I had been waiting months for! When my husband had been here several months ago, he had gone to this fabric store, with the wife of a friend. She helped him to choose some fabric to bring home to me. He told me of this wonderful store that had 4 stories of fabrics that would take me several days to go through. Then, he was invited to come back to Kuala Lumpur for another visit,and this time I was going along. Now I was going to enter this store for myself, and see just how real this fantasy was.
Our friends picked us up at 10:30 am. I thought that the men were going to go fly, but instead they accompanied us to the store. Not a good sign. I can't shop for fabric when I am being 'watched'.
As we were about to enter the doors to this palace of fabric, my sandal caught on the edge of the sidewalk and my ankle twisted out from under me. Through the tears and pain, all I could think of, was, NO!!! I can't let this pain stop me from fabric shopping! Not now - not when I am so close! So I took several deep breaths, several more long minutes, a handful of tears for the pain, and forged ahead. The adrenalin of the moment kicked in and I forgot about my ankle. As I entered the large doors to this place, my breathe caught in my throat and I forgot to breath. Each customer was given a salesperson that followed you as you made your selections. Though my goal was to find wedding gown fabrics (so as to be able to count it as a business trip, after all!), I was constantly being distracted by fabrics that called to me- that had nothing to do with weddings. Silks from all over the world; India, China, Italy, Africa even! Swiss cottons so fine I could have sworn they were really silk! Beaded chiffons and laces of every color imaginable! I found myself going from room to room and floor to floor, picking out bolts of fabric, until my saleslady finally stopped me to get me to make selections from the bolts I had already choosen. Many of those went back, as I kept finding fabrics better than what I had already found. Had the men not been there, I would easily have spent all day there. Easily. But, then I would also have put us in the poor house. As it was, I only spent about 3 hours there. But I left with  some of the most beautiful fabrics I've ever seen!

A cotton jaquard print of blues and black

An Imported Italian cotton I thought must surely be silk!

An embellished and embroidered chiffon unlike anything I have ever seen before! SO GORGEOUS! Now - what am I going to do with it??

An Italian silk beaded chiffon that was on sale - 80% off!!!

A super soft swiss cotton paisley fabric - fun!!!

Yards & yards of embroidered silk chiffon - Ecstacy in lace!!!!

More embroidered chiffon lace!!!!

An 8 inch alencon border lace

And my final piece - a French embroidered black lace - oh-la-la!!!

 My 'shopping assistant', my friend, Lelia, and myself; just a very small corner of the store behind us.

Within a couple hours of leaving the store, my ankle was starting to hurt again; by the time I returned to the hotel, I could hardly walk. I had 1 1/2 hours till I had to leave for the airport. My loving husband ran to the pharmacy and got me some advil, a sport sock (for compression) and some dinner. After the pain meds, putting my foot up, and putting the special sock on, my ankle was feeling almost itself.
24 hours later, I am home, resting my slightly swollen ankle, drinking a glass of wine, and remembering very fondly, my week in a very excotic part of our world.
Malaysia is a such a mix of different cultures, all unique with their own flavors and customs, yet all living together in harmony. It has it's own set of pro's and con's, as do all countries.
But the overwhelming sense I came away with, was that it is a country full of loving proud people, who want to share their culture with all who visit; hoping that you will want to visit again, and again. And I do - there is much to see and do in Malaysia. I feel as though I have only tapped the surface!


  1. I am so very moved and now find myself in a sense of 'calm' if that makes sense. Thank you so much for sharing Candi. Love the oh my and ur dialogue was perfect. Smiles :)

  2. This is Christy btw (Digital Memories by Christy)

  3. wow amazing this post and very beautiful all photo's . your good looking and nice location of Malaysia. i like that and great idea .fantastic your this post ....

  4. gorgeous photos and I cannot wait to see what you do with that beautiful fabric!

  5. What an experience~ sounds and looks like you had a beautiful time!!

  6. Sounds like one of those dreams where you are thwarted right before you are about to do something. I remember that feeling of excitement when I went fabric shopping in Paris last year. Singapore looks a lot like Thailand but cleaner I am sure.I hear it's illegal to throw away gum there. Was the fabric a good deal?

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  9. Wow wonderful really nice costume and i will say that all images are looking too good thanks for the sharing.

  10. Nice image location photo shoot and and great story thanks for the posting I really impress and happy to after read this story.

  11. OMG!! Mind blowing your this post . Lovely posting of Malaysia. Perfect details posting and beautiful your pics and cool foods . funny pics of monkey and i just planning trip of Malaysia.

  12. this is a Nice image location photo shoot and and great story thanks for the posting I really impress and happy to after read this story.

  13. What fabric store in Malaysia was this, if you mind me asking...?

  14. this is a amazing this post and very beautiful all photo's . your good looking and nice location of Malaysia...thanks for sharing